Here's to....

When twilight first came out I was adamant that my two daughters, then 10 and 7 would never read those books as teenagers but rather as adults. The idea being that by then they would be able to discern the good relationships from the bad ones. That they wouldn't fall prey to the over glorification of true love, and forever and happy ever after. With no discernible conflict and limitless forgiveness no matter how horrible the offense.

What turned out to be more important was sharing the experience with them instead. Discussing the relationships and the players in them...this successfully gave us a gateway to discuss those things which become difficult. Boys. Girls. Girls and boys. Boys and boys. Girls and girls. Needy and forever loving or passionate, protective and slightly reckless.

The lines of communication remain open and that is the lifeline to healthy relationships. No matter who's team you're on...

xoxo,
               luce